Celebrating Life!

Hum jeeta bhi ek bar hai , marte bhi ek bar hai aur pyar bhi ek hi bar hota hai !
(We live life once,we die only once and we love only once)






How we should define life ? GOD'S WISH , OUR PARENTS LOVE , SUPPORT TO FAMILY ???
Thinking on the crucial aspect why we are born if god has sended us on earth there must be a reason.

A Pray of Hope!

What can more worst than seeing your close one die?
The lady that given you birth , was with you in every good and bad time, pulled you up when you fallen, takes care of you, your home, fulfilled your every necessity what she demanded against all that- love and care? Not even that...think what you do for your mother,wife,sister or other lady in the house?


According to sikh religion what is said- why should we say ba thing to the one who gave birth to the people in world ( so kyu manda akhiye jis jame rajan). Value women and give respect to them thats the only hope i have and i pray to god give strength to all those who want to value women.
Don't rape them, don't beat them , women are not animals, they also have right to respect,understand their feelings ,show care to them and if you can't just stay away.

The Mindset

People born in certain areas or brought up in various cultures have a mindset that stays with them for life long no matter how many cities,countries,localities they change they behave in a specific way in various circumstances.

IN THE WORLD OF DEVILS LET THE ANGEL IN US SURVIVE

Imagine 2 creatures sitting on our shoulder one on left the other one on right, one is devil and other is an angel.
When we are going to do anything false or something that gives us temporary happiness angel says us to stop that's not the correct way do it another way but the devil says do the way you feel comfortable and take a short cut to success.
That's the point when we have to take a decision whether to listen to the devil or the angel!
Being born as a human is a kindness that god showed upon us and we should be grateful to him thus respect humanity and people.Everyone born is someone brother,sister,mother,father,son,daughter,etc. Any harm to anyone of us is harm to humanity,if god didn't differentiated while making us who has given us the right to fight on the basis of caste,creed,colour, etc.
Above everything is one thing what u do is what you get ,both hell and heaven are on earth those who do bad deeds has to face worst life on this earth only.
It is rightly said when we are going to do something new the first thing or the thought that comes to our mind is said by the angel other are of devil.

WHO AM I ?

Answer to this question became difficult as i grew older.

I am a human being who inhale oxygen and exhale carbon dioxide, who needs basic necessity of life to survive i.e. food ,clothes,shelter,etc. A person who wakes up every morning  with the hope of happening something good today , who takes the name of god before stepping from bed and reaching to her slippers to further start the day.

I am a girl who messes up her hair when she is working, who does household takes, who studies in night and sleep till late morning . I am a post graduate now and has achieved where i wan to be in life.

I am a daughter who loves her parents  more than any thing else in the world without whom can't even survive for a day and thought of leaving them and getting married just makes me cry ;'(

I am a sister who is really pampered by her brother, i make him do whatever i want by hook or crook and can fight with him whole day and at night gives him a good night hug and things are sorted.

I am a sister in law who loves her brother wife alot and equally care for her, because no matter what we are a family.

I am a friend who really enjoys being in a stupid yet dearest friend and talking shit and ultimately laughs on that shit only.

I am a believer in god who just leaves her worries on god and believe whatever god has planned for me will come to me.

I am an extrovert who loves to stay out of home explore , travel , fun , etc.

I am a person who lives on my own philosophy of life - I believe in giving 3 chances to all those who do bad to me and when 4th time they try they are no longer in this world (:p) or in my life.

I LIKE TO GET PAMPERED- They way i am brought up i like to get pampered by everyone and those who don't huh!

I am an elder - I behave the way the situation demands if it demands me to behave in a mature way so do i and if not childishness continues.

I am a fighter - I was standing in front of the problems that my family faced  few years back , i became a fighter to support my family emotionally.

I am creative who loves to make something new from old , change is my attitude.

I am honest i don't use people or things for my own sake, helping the needy , doing something good to someone gives me an internal satisfaction.